Sex After Kids and Menopause: What No One Tells You (But We Will
Let's get real. You're curious. ls sex after kids and menopause even happening? Or is it some mythicalunicorn only seen in movies where everyone has perfect skin and endless libidos?
We're here to strip away the fluff and dive into the nitty-gritty of what sex really looks like after thelittle gremlins arrive or when the hot flashes hit. Spoiler alert: it's not all doom and gloom, In fact, itmight just surprise you.
So... ls Sex Still Happening After Kids?
Yes. No. Maybe. lt depends. And isn't that just the most annoying answer? But stay with us.
Sex after kids can feel like juggling flaming swords. One minute you're ready to tear each other'sclothes off, and the next, someone's yelling because their stuffed animal is missing. Romance kiler?Absolutely.But impossible? Hell no.
Here's the deal:
Your Time ls Not Your Own. Those post-baby days? Yeah, your time belongs to that tiny humannow. Spontaneity? Forget it. Sex is now scheduled between naps and cartoons.
Exhaustion is Real. After a full day of being a snack distributor, emotional referee, and entertainer,sometimes sleep sounds better than a quickie.
Body Changes. Your body did the ultimate magic trick - creating life. And that comes with stretchmarks, scars, and maybe even a C-section scar that makes you self-conscious.

But here's the plot twist. For some people, post-baby sex is better. Why? Because they're more intune with their bodies, The stakes are lower. And honestly, if you can survive a toddler meltdown in themiddle of Target, you can survive anything
And Then... There's Menopause.
Ah, menopause. Nature's way of giving you one final test. Hot flashes. Vaginal dryness. Mood swingsthat could make the Hulk cry.
Sex during peri/menopause can feel like trying to start a fire with damp wood. But, it's not impossible.
In fact, it can be even more satisfying. How?
Confidence Boost. You've lived. You've experienced things. You're not wasting time pretending toenjoy bad sex anymore.
.Zero F*cks Given. At this point, you know what you want, and you're not afraid to ask for it
Better Orgasms. Yep. For some, orgasms get stronger with age. Thank you, experience and pelvicfloor exercises.