Finding That Sweet Special G-Spot
Looking for a way to put more spring in your step? We've got just the thing...finding your g-spot! Now, you may have already discovered this epic little pleasure point in your vajaja, but if not, let's see if we can help you out, not literally, of course, but figuratively. Read on...
When we chat about g-spot stimulation, we know that all humans born with a vagina have this special sweet spot, an inch or two, inside the vaginal opening. And while we don't know whether you or your partner will enjoy the way the sensation feels when stimulated, we can say that looking for it should be a fun, bonding experience for both of you.
If you're doing a deep dive solo, get comfy with yourself and set the mood. We suggest candles, furry blankets and a nice bottle of red.
Female ejaculation may be possible, and for some, it's considered "squirting," while others may experience a minor release of fluid. Either way, it probably won't look like what you see in the porn, they're professionals, and well, you're still searching for yours. Regardless, once you find it, you'll be hooked for life!
So, how to find that ever-elusive satisfaction section of your lady bits. Here are a few things to keep in mind:
- Arousal - if you're not turned on, it's going to be deeply difficult to find that little juicy joint.
- Toys - there are many sex toys made exclusively to help you find that deep tissue tickle. Egg vibrators, rabbit vibrators, ben wa balls, and the list goes on.
- Lube - Until you find that juiced-out spot in your snugglepuss, you'll need plenty of lube to make sure you're slipping and sliding into orgasm.
- Patience - Searching for your hot pocket might be challenging, but it's certainly worth the wait. It might take more than one attempt. Let's face it; every great explorer failed more than they succeeded.
Now that you've set the mood, charged up your toys, and lubed up, let's begin! Start with your fingers; it's easier to feel around that way. Or let your partner start. Sometimes it's easier to lay back and direct them to your heavens curve. But if you're solo, get in there and poke around gently, of course. Push your fingers into your meat taco and towards the top of your belly button. Once you feel that OMG, this is an AMAZING feeling (and you'll know when you get there), continue to stimulate it until you orgasm. I prefer toys, but everyone is different.
I had a boyfriend who was the g-spot whisperer, seriously. He knew exactly where to go to bring me to water splashing, toe flexing, Jesus screaming orgasm. That was the worst part of our breakup; I knew his golden fingers would never again take me to tsunami waves of ecstasy.